Gisselle Vivanco, Thresholds Program Coordinator, gives us an inside look at how Aunt Leah’s Thresholds program helps women and children thrive.

“I love my job because it’s deeply fulfilling to see women grow, find their strengths, and break cycles of trauma.”

When women come to Thresholds, the first thing we tell them is: “Just breathe. We’ve got you.” That time to settle in, feel safe, and begin to trust someone is often the most important first step.

Every woman has a unique story. Many arrive having navigated complex challenges, including past substance use, trauma, abuse, experiences of trafficking, violence, and financial instability. These experiences can also have lasting impacts on their mental health.  

In the Thresholds program, we draw inspiration from the Medicine Wheel — a sacred teaching used in many Indigenous cultures that centres on living in balance and harmony. Its message can resonate with many of us, especially in moments when life feels overwhelming or out of balance.

Through a holistic lens, we help women look at their lives across four areas: the physical, the emotional, the mental, and the spiritual. Stability isn’t just about finding a job and a place to live; it’s about healing the whole self. By teaching this model of interconnectedness, our staff walks alongside women while they find the steady ground they need to move forward and grow in their confidence as parents.

Through weekly check-ins, opportunities to build life skills, and encouragement, women begin to recognize their strengths and set attainable goals for themselves and their children. Initially, we advocate for them, and slowly, they learn to do it themselves. We encourage them to build connections outside of Aunt Leah’s, so that they can have a solid foundation when they transition out from the Thresholds program. 

Small changes often signal big progress — being more playful interactions with their children, trying new approaches to daily routines, learning self-care techniques, and gaining ability to reach their own goals. Over time, these steps build not only stability but self-confidence and a sense of belonging.

Support for the Whole Family

Something we don’t often talk about is all the work we do with the children. At the houses, we have children of all ages, from babies to high-schoolers. When needed, we connect them to health services, education or mental health supports. We support moms with accessing resources such as daycare, so children can develop social skills, while they focus on their personal and professional goals.

“It is important for me that our community is aware of the positive impact of our program. We need more residential programs like Thresholds to support families, where moms heal, and the children grow in a safe environment. 

Children are our future, supporting their mothers reaches far, creating stronger communities.” – Gisselle